I am afraid there is no way because your site does not know who the user is until it gets token for the first time.
What you can do is to call the CheckAccessToken() function instead of Process() and it will tell you if you would need to redirect or not. Then you can show a login button that will redirect to Facebook dialog telling the user to click there if they want.
Take a loon at the the login_check_with_facebook.php example script:
phpclasses.org/package/7700-PHP-Aut
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